Taming the Beast

…..or a hers and his exploration of chastity, orgasm denial and FLR

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  • Training the cuck to let go

    Is it possible to believe that in the span of 5 months I have gone from having a 10 text discussion (With Mr. J) about going for coffee with a bull (and check-ins) to going away for an entire weekend to a remote location with no cell service? Let’s review the evolution of this journey…

  • Standard Operating Procedure: How to make a functional cuckold (“cuckie”)

    1. Initiate discussion about cuckolding. Focus on benefits, limit discussions of negative outcomes. Discussion of benefits could include the following:- Happy wife, happy life- More satisfied wife = increased personal benefits for him. These don’t have to be specific, vague is good. 2. Practice orgasm denial as required. This is important to maintain high levels…

  • The Hierarchy of Controls

    Ok bear with me. You’re not at work, this isn’t another dull safety meeting, nobody is droning on and on about metrics and statistics and slips, trips, and falls. But the above image did pop into my head this morning while working backwards through our journey so far in my mind. If we go back…

  • I am Bull

    Our first guest post, enjoy: E: Busy day tomorrow? J goes to *location*…so my evening is free J: My wife would rather be with you than me that night B: Anything I can do? J: Mostly the things I can’t.  Fuck her well.  Make her squirt.  Cum inside her.  Anything else she would like. I…

  • April Update – Back to Basics

    We love to plan. Work things out in advance, weigh pros and cons, analyze everything to death. Then we love to throw those plans in the fire and wing it. Then we make new plans. There’s something (I think) almost cathartic about planning. Seeing the future unfold in front of you in a logical way,…

  • (Not) Emotional Damage!

    I have been wanting to write a post related to the challenging emotions of this FLR/cuckold experience for a while, so here is my attempt. We watch a lot of Uncle Roger’s videos on YouTube and love the “emotional damage” meme, and while it is funny, there is no emotional damage to speak of. Emotions…

  • Why a Bull is Better

    Oh my god…….oh my god………… OH MY GOD! This is exactly what my neighbours hear when my bull is over at our place fucking me into oblivion.Why is having a bull better than my husband? Easy – I get what he cannot give me, and more. It is such an empowering scenario that I have…

  • The C Word

    Not that C word. Not chastity either. Cuckolding. Cuckold. Cuckoldress. Cucky, as I’m not sometimes affectionately called (sometimes mockingly). It wasn’t part of the initial plan. In fact, it was something that Miss E was adamant she did not want. This was our thing, our relationship, and she saw no need, had no desire, to…

  • Why I have chosen to cuckold my husband

    See?  I said in my last post that our ideas come to fruition. So while orgasm denial has been an absolute pleasure for me and I get off on the control, it has some down sides – like loss of stamina during PIV sex.  Mr. J can hit the right spots during sex, but often…

  • First Post from Miss E

    Ok, so I finally feel like I can start to talk about this journey. Let’s start at the beginning – why and how did I get involved in this chastity/female led journey.  It started on a boring November evening when Mr. J asked me to watch porn.  My usual response would have been “thanks, but…