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Guilt & Chastity
This is a hard post to write. It’s also a very, very long way from the fetishized world of chastity that you find on the internet. I’ve already written about the emotions that come with this. Be it due to hormones, or time to reflect, or the power shift, or all of the above, I…
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The Rules
Every relationship has rules. Unwritten, mostly. Unsaid, or, not needing to be said, sure. Our relationship, and I imagine most FLR scenarios, are no different. There are rules, agreed upon by both sides, that govern how this whole thing works. There are other rules, some would call them limits, that may be decided by only…
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Release Day – The Non Event
Another release day down. Another new record. Another bar set higher for the next one. Another anti-climax. This is my third in February, coming (no pun intended) 10 days after the last. The last was preceded by a 6 day wait, 5 days for the one before. Fully ruined orgasms are a weird, paradoxical thing….
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Feelings….So. Many. Feelings.
I don’t know if it’s the same for everyone doing this, since my sample size is exactly…..one. The government has yet to approve my funding request to widen the study. One of the immediate…within days….effects of being denied, controlled, caged….was emotional. Violently emotional. Confusing, scary, hard to deal with, abnormal, and always present emotions, layered…
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Bigger is Better
No, not in the way you think. Well maybe. She was a little more non committal about that. Bigger is Better was something she said last night after our lovemaking. Lovemaking that consisted of her fingering my ass rather aggressively (I’m learning) while I edged myself a few times, followed by slipping a plug in…
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Training Me – The Beginning
Firstly, I apologize for the scatterbrained appearance of all of this. Playing a bit of catch up as starting the blog came a few months after we dove into this, so there’s a bit of a flashback in a movie feeling to some of this as I bounce around. At the end of January, after…
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New Cage Weekend
So I got a new cage. Another amazon wonder, this time in hot pink (Miss E LOVES the color….I love that she loves it?). It’s actually the second new cage I’ve received in the last couple of weeks, though the other one hasn’t even been tried on yet. I’ve had some skin integrity issues and…
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Fun and Games (early days)
You’ll find a lot of posts, information, narratives describing various periods of lock up. From what we’ve seen, this will range anywhere from hours to (gasp) years/permanence. While you may have an opinion on the various lengths of time a man may wish to be (let’s be honest here, this doesn’t happen without his consent),…
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Our Former (Sex) Life
First off – we don’t mind sharing. This may be stating the obvious, given that we are blogging about this, but really, we don’t mind. The day we start getting comments and/or emails will be exciting for us. Our former sex life cannot easily be summed up. Not always exciting, not always boring. Not always…
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Growing (or not) pains
We received our first device before Christmas. It wasn’t the pretty pink silicone thing that Miss E had wanted – unfortunately, shipping times on that were slow. Amazingly slow. Instead, it was the backup device. A stainless steel, overseas produced, cheap knockoff with a barrel lock and birdcage style design. It was short, a little…